A family with teenagers enjoys a day out at the beach by capturing a group picture.
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Planning a holiday with teenagers can feel like navigating a minefield.
Too many rules or too much structure invites complaints, while too few activities can lead to boredom, prompting teens to retreat into the digital world. Conversely, offering them too much freedom could mean barely seeing them during the trip, eliminating opportunities for bonding as a family.
However, Shaun Lamont, the managing director of First Group Hotels and Resorts, believes there’s a way to strike the perfect balance. As a father of both a teenager and a tween, Lamont has learned that the foundation of a successful family holiday lies in allowing teenagers the space they crave while fashioning moments for meaningful shared experiences.
"Teens can present unique challenges when it comes to travel," explains Lamont. "They’re fiercely independent but still want to be part of family experiences. They seek adventure while also needing downtime. The trick is finding a balance that works for everyone."
Drawing on his personal experiences, Lamont shares his top tips for travelling with teenagers, designed to minimise tension and ensure a holiday filled with unforgettable memories:
Involve them in the planning
By involving teenagers in the trip planning process, you grant them a sense of ownership. Encourage them to suggest destinations and activities, ensuring all voices are heard. This collaborative approach not only fosters enthusiasm from the outset but also encourages family bonding.
Make the journey part of the fun
Road trips can often be the most tedious part of a holiday. Hand over the reins of the playlist to the kids and choose roadside attractions together, even if that means a few detours. Let them download a movie or audiobook in advance, providing quiet moments for relaxation.
If you can’t beat them, join them
Embracing teenagers' love for social media can lead to engaging adventures that everyone can enjoy and share. Seek out activities that are not only exciting but also boast Instagram-worthy backdrops. Equally important, set boundaries for "no-phone time" to encourage genuine connections.
Teens still love to play – so play with them
Despite their cool demeanour, teenagers still enjoy fun, family-oriented activities. Challenge them to games of pool, darts, or even participate in friendly competitions at the pool. Opt for resorts that offer various entertainment options to bond over shared laughter.
Give them some independence
Freedom is key for teenagers during a holiday. Select resorts that allow them to safely explore, such as game rooms or sporting facilities, while you enjoy some personal time. This autonomy will lead to a more harmonious family time later on.
Make it about experiences, not just sightseeing
Rushing between tourist attractions will only breed discontent. Instead, introduce experiences like zip-lining or quad biking, coupled with family activities like a DIY pizza competition, to keep the excitement alive throughout the trip.
Ultimately, Lamont believes that travelling with teens doesn’t have to be a struggle. "The best trips are those where everyone enjoys a bit of adventure, relaxation, and, most importantly, time spent together as a family," he says.